Start early. Check off what applies. Skip what does not.
Your surgeon’s instructions always override a general checklist. Use this page to organize questions and household preparation—not to replace medical guidance.
Prefer paper? Download the four-page Rory & Me printable with large type and checkboxes.
01
Before surgery • Medical
Confirm the care plan
Get the important medical details out of your head and into one reliable place.
02
Before surgery • Home
Prepare the recovery space
Arrange the room while bending, lifting, and decision-making are still easy.
03
Before surgery • Food & support
Make the first week easier
Plan for low energy and fewer errands—not a perfect recovery routine.
04
Before surgery • Personal
Prepare emotionally and practically
A little planning can reduce the mental load when your energy is limited.
05
Surgery day
Bring only what helps
Keep the hospital plan simple, comfortable, and easy to manage.
06
Post-surgery • First week
Protect the early recovery
Follow your discharge instructions and keep the first week intentionally small.
07
Post-surgery • Weeks 2–6
Increase activity gradually
Recovery is not linear. Let your surgical instructions—not the calendar alone—set the pace.
08
Longer-term recovery
Give healing enough room
Physical recovery and emotional adjustment may move at different speeds.